Kale anthu ankachita manyazi akamafufuza “zidole zazikulu” pamasamba ogula.
Kudzimvera chisoni kuli ngati kunyansidwa ndi munthu.Atsikana omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zidole zachikulire adzalembedwa kuti "osayenera" komanso "osadzikonda".
Koma lero, zikhoza kukambidwa momasuka komanso momasuka.
Malipoti akusonyeza kuti akazi mwapang’onopang’ono asanduka mphamvu yaikulu pamsika wa zidole za achikulire, ndipo zoseŵeretsa zachikulire, monga zodzoladzola, zimaphatikizidwa m’ndandanda za kugula kwa atsikana.
Kusintha kwakukulu koteroko kumapangitsa anthu kudabwa, ndi atsikana otani omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zidole zachikulire?
1. Atsikana omwe amakumana ndi zokhumba zawo moona mtima
N'chifukwa chiyani amakonda kusewera ndi zoseweretsa akuluakulu?Mawu chikwi akhoza kufotokozedwa mwachidule m'mawu amodzi: "osangalala".
Chilakolako cha kugonana, monga kudya ndi kugona, ndi chimodzi mwazosowa zachibadwa zaumunthu.Kukamba za kugonana si chinthu chimene akazi ayenera kuchita nacho manyazi.Zoseweretsa akuluakulundi chida wamba chomwe chingatithandize kukwaniritsa zosowa zathu zakuthupi mwaukhondo komanso mwaukhondo.
Masiku ano, kuzindikira kwa akazi za chikhumbo kukukulirakulira.Amayi ochulukirachulukira akuphunzira kuyang'anizana nawo, kudzikondweretsa okha, ndikusankha zoseweretsa zachikulire zomwe amafunikira pogula pa intaneti.
2. Chilakolako chochepa chogonana ndipo chiyenera kudzutsidwa
Ndipotu si atsikana onse amene amagula okha zoseŵeretsa zachikulire.Pofuna kupititsa patsogolo moyo wawo wogonana, anyamata ambiri amagulanso zoseweretsa zachikulire za anzawo ofunikira.
Chifukwa cha kusiyana kwa thupi, abambo ndi amai amakhala ndi nthawi zosiyana pa moyo wogonana.Amuna ali ngati mababu amene amayaka mofulumira ndi kuyatsa mofulumira.Zomverera zimabwera mwachangu ndipo ndizosavuta kupeza zosangalatsa.Kwa amayi, kumverera kumabwera pang'onopang'ono.Sikokokomeza kunena kuti "kutentha pamoto wochepa", makamaka pamene maganizo ali ochepa.
Ndiye pa nthawi yokonzekera, mnyamata akhoza kutengazidole zazikulundikuchita zowoneratu, ndikuyesera kuti mtsikanayo asangalale ndi "appetizer" momwe angathere.Pamasewera enieni, mutha kugwiritsanso ntchito zoseweretsa zachikulire monga chothandizira kukulitsa chisangalalo.
3.Atsikana omwe amasangalala ndi okondedwa awo
Atsikana omwe amawona kuti moyo wawo wakugonana ndi wotopetsa amasankha mwachangu zoseweretsa zachikulire kuti apange chisangalalo kwa onse awiri.
Ngakhale kutengeka mtima kukhale kozama bwanji, sikungathe kupirira kupita kwa nthawi.Moyo wa kugonana ukakhala ntchito ndipo palibe amene angasangalale nazo, ndikuwonjezera zoseweretsa zachikulire, wina ndi mnzake angapeze kutsitsimuka mu "kupambana" ndikusangalala mosavuta.
Zoseweretsa akuluakuluakhoza kukhala chomangira cha kulankhulana pakati pa okwatirana.Kukhala ndi zoseweretsa zatsopano zachikulire kuli ngati kukhala ndi kutsitsimuka kokhazikika.
Nthawi yotumiza: Jan-18-2024
