Nthawi zambiri, azimayi opitilira zaka makumi atatu adakumana ndi zonse zomwe ayenera kudutsa.Pankhani ya kugonana, sakhalanso ndi ubiriwiri umene unkawachititsa manyazi akaona ena akupsopsona ali aang’ono.Azimayi ambiri okhwima maganizo ali kale ndi luso lawo la kugonana, monga kuseka, kusangalala, kaimidwe, ndi zina zotero.
Ndili ndi mnzanga wapamtima dzina lake Lisa.Mwamuna wake anayenera kupatukana naye ndi ana chifukwa cha ntchito, ndipo akanatha kukumananso kwa mwezi umodzi kapena iŵiri chaka chilichonse.Nthawi zina ndimamumvera chisoni.Watopa kwambiri chifukwa cha ntchito ndipo ayenera kulera ana.Ndimamulangiza kuti azimasuka kwambiri akapeza nthawi.Nthawi zonse amamwetulira mowawidwa mtima n’kunena kuti, “Nanenso ndikufuna kutero!”Inde, ndani angafune kugwira ntchito molimbika chotere?Ndidangopumira mtima ndikumulimbikitsa kuti, "Ndiwe mayi wamkulu wabodza," zomwe zidamupangitsa kuti agwe misozi.
Nthawi ina ndimacheza naye ndipo ndinati, “Mwamuna wako wabweranso patapita nthawi yayitali.Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani ngati mukufuna kugonana?"Iye anati: “Ngati ndili ndi maganizo amenewa, ndingowasiya nthawi yomweyo, apo ayi nditani?"Kodi simunaganizepo zomuyimbira foni kapena kucheza naye pavidiyo?"Iye anati ndi kumwetulira pang’ono, “N’zochititsa manyazi, sindikudziwa momwe ndingachitire, mwina sindingavomereze, ndipo sindikudziwa ngati sangakonde.Ndife banja lokalamba tsopano, musalole kuti azindiseka.”Adatelo uku akuseka.
Koma masiku angapo apitawo, anakambilana nane zoseŵela za kugonana.Ndinasangalala kwambiri poyamba.Inde, chisangalalo chimenechi chinali chifukwa ndinali wokondwa kuti anali ndi maganizo oterowo pa moyo.Ndinamufunsa kuti "N'chifukwa chiyani mwadzidzidzi munaganiza zogula zoseweretsa zogonana?".Anakhala chete kwa kanthawi ndipo anati, “Ndatopa pang’ono.Ndi kutali kwambiri.M'madera onse awiri, nthawi iliyonse yomwe ndimamufuna, palibe.Ndikufuna kugawana naye, koma salipobe.Chomwe chimandimvetsa chisoni kwambiri ndichakuti, Satha kumvetsetsa kudzipereka kwanga komanso momwe ndikumvera.Amangolumikizana nane kamodzi pakanthawi, koma amakhala wovuta komanso wodabwitsa ngakhale kudzera pa foni.…”Ndiye ndikuganiza, ngati ndingathe kuthana ndi zosowa zanga zakuthupi ndekha, kodi ndingakhale motere kwa moyo wanga wonse? ”Adatelo uku akumwetulira mokwiya.Ndinasokonezeka.Ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri ndimakonda kulankhula kwambiri, ndikamakumana ndi mnzanga wapamtima kwa zaka zambiri, kusungulumwa kwake kunandichititsa kusowa chonena.Ndinadziwa kuti akugwetsa misozi, ndipo ankadziwanso kuti ndikumugwira.Tinangokhala ndi wina ndi mnzake kwa kanthawi, tikuwuzira mpweya wozizira, kuti tisunge ulemu waukalamba wathu.
Nthawi yotumiza: Oct-19-2023
