SM ndi njira yapadera pa moyo wogonana ndipo ili ndi njira zosiyanasiyana zosewerera.Sadism ndi Masochism zimayimira zosiyana zamagulu onsewa.Kotero pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa njira za Sadism ndi Masochism mu moyo wa kugonana.Ndiye kwa novices Sadism, mungayambe bwanji kuphunzitsa Masochism?Tsopano tiyeni tikuphunzitseni momwe mungaphunzitsire Masochism.
Utumiki wamanyazi umene Sadism umapereka Masochism suyang'ana pa ntchito, koma pa manyazi.Ntchito yamanyazi ndiyo kuukira manyazi amkati mokulirapo, ndipo kwa oyamba kumene omwe alibe chidziwitso m'derali, zotsatira zake ndizofunika kwambiri.
Muzochitika zapadera, mutha kugwiritsa ntchito mawu otukwana komanso achipongwe m'chilankhulo, koma muyenera kulabadira chilankhulocho.Vulgarity sikutanthauza kutukwana.Mungagwiritse ntchito mawu ochititsa manyazi okhudza ziwalo zogonana.Pankhani ya mayendedwe, Masochism atha kupangidwa kuti achite zina zomwe sizinachitikepo.Mwachitsanzo, mukhoza kuvumbulutsa ziwalo zanu zobisika ndi kuzisonyeza kwathunthu.Kapena chitani kaimidwe ka K9, ndipo muthanso kumangiriza Masochism mumayendedwe osiyanasiyana.Inde, njira yanu iyenera kukhala yabwino, mwinamwake idzawoneka yodabwitsa.
Pa nthawi ya maphunziro, thupi siliyenera kukhala lamaliseche kwathunthu.Kuvula mwadongosolo komanso mwaluso kudzalimbikitsa Masochism ndikupanga manyazi ena.Mwachitsanzo, gwiritsani ntchito lumo kudula zovala zamkati.Inde, muyenera kubweretsa awiri owonjezera.
Ikani mkamwa mwa Masochism osavula zovala zamkati.Ngati muli ndi mpira wamkamwa, mutha kudumpha sitepe iyi.Pochita izi, Masochism ayenera kumvera malamulo ndi zofunikira za Sadism.Mutha kukana zomwe zili zosavomerezeka, koma sizinthu zonse zomwe ziyenera kukanidwa.Popereka malamulo, Sadism iyenera kulemekeza Masochism ndipo asachite mopambanitsa.
M’kati mwa machitidwe a Masochism akupereka malamulo, ngati Masochism alakwitsa, Sadism ikhoza kupereka chilango china, monga momwe SP ingalangidwe chifukwa cholakwitsa.Polanga, Masochism awerenge.
Chifukwa masewera amanyazi makamaka amalimbana ndi psychology, sangathe kuseweredwa pafupipafupi, apo ayi Masochism ikasinthidwa, imachepetsa chisangalalo.Ndi bwino kuisewera kamodzi pamwezi kapena kuposerapo, ndipo pambuyo pa chilango chamanyazi, kuyesetsa kuti abwerere mwakale.Khalani pachibwenzi ndikusunga kugonana kukhala chinsinsi.
Ngati mumalamulira mwachidwi chilakolako cha kugonana ndi khalidwe la kugonana la Masochism, chilango chotsatira chamanyazi chidzakhala chosaiwalika!
Kwa Masochism amene amakonda kunyozeka, mukhoza kunena kuti "Ikani chikwama changa m'chiuno mwanu, chitengereni, gwadirani ndikukwawa, kwezani matako anu pamwamba pang'ono";kwa Masochism amene amakonda mwambo, munganene kuti “Ikani chikwama changa pamwamba pa mutu wanu, gwadirani ndi kukwawa, sungani manja anu m’mwamba momwe mungathere ndipo musawagwedeze.”
Zambiri zatsatanetsatane ndizosangalatsa kwambiri ku Masochism kuposa malamulo osavuta.Ndiye muyenera kuphunzira kulamulira mlengalenga.Mlengalenga ndi yofunika kwambiri pa maphunziro, koma Sadism ambiri nthawi zambiri amanyalanyaza mfundo imeneyi.Chifukwa chiyani mahotela achikondi ali otchuka kwambiri kuposa mahotela wamba?Chifukwa chakuti mlengalenga ndi wolondola.
Pali zinthu zitatu zazikuluzikulu zopanga mlengalenga: zovala, chilengedwe ndi kamvekedwe.
Mosafunikira kunena za zovala, aliyense ali ndi kalembedwe kake komwe amakonda.Zovala zodziletsa zokhudzana ndi kudziletsa, zovala zapulasitiki, zovala za mphaka, ndi zina zotere zimatha kulola mbali zonse kuti zilandire chilimbikitso ndikulowa m'boma mwachangu.
Pankhani ya chilengedwe, anthu ena amakonda masitayilo osangalatsa, ena amakonda mawonekedwe akuda, ndipo ena amakonda malo otentha komanso abwino.Zimasiyana munthu ndi munthu, koma sayenera kukhala malo otopetsa.
Chomaliza komanso chofunikira kwambiri ndikuwongolera nyimbo.Sadism iyenera kudziwa nthawi yoti achite komanso ngati nyimboyo iyenera kukhala yachangu kapena yodekha pomvetsetsa Masochism.
Maphunziro onse amakhazikika pakukhulupirirana pakati pa magulu awiriwa.Ngati Sadism sakhulupirira Masochism, sangathe kupereka malamulo momasuka.Ngati Masochism sakhulupirira Sadism, ziribe kanthu momwe amalamulira ndi kulamulira, sadzapeza chisangalalo, chifukwa sangamvere kuchokera pansi pamtima ndikudzipereka kwathunthu.Chikhulupiliro ndiye maziko ndi chinsinsi chotsimikizira ngati Sadism ndi Masochism zitha kukhala limodzi kwa nthawi yayitali.
Nthawi yotumiza: Jan-12-2024
